What is the swinging lifestyle?
By definition, the lifestyle is the act of sharing yourself and or your partner sexually with other people.
In actuality, the lifestyle is what you make of it!
You receive from the lifestyle whatever you are willing to put into it based on your wants and desires.
There are many variations in living the lifestyle. These variations are based on what you are seeking as well as your comfort level.
Are you looking for a full swap encounter? This is the act of completely sharing yourself as well as your partner sexually with added partners.
Maybe you are more comfortable starting out with a soft swap encounter. This is the act of sharing yourself as well as your parner sexually but excluding intersourse, with added partners.
In performing these acts, you will need to decide if you are comfortable wilh all involved parties in the same room or if separate rooms are more of what you are looking for.
The above information doesn’t even scratch the surface as far as preparing to enter the lifestyle is concerned. So many people seem to take on the attitude that sex is just sex and adding others into the mix can only be erotic to say the very least. They proceed into the lifestyle uninformed and unprepared. All is good until they encounter:
Jealousy, anger, discrimination, drama, performance anxiety. etc etc…
Entering into a new life adventure more informed always gives you more of an edge in achieving a successful outcome. The Swinging Lifestyle, although fun and exciting can be devisdating if you enter the scene uninformed and without fully understanding what you are approaching.